We are all bombarded by unsolicited advice. Some of it may be good to excellent, but if we're not receptive, it might as well be worthless, because we won't act upon it. And some of the unsolicited advice is terrible to dangerous. So, wise caution is prudent in evaluating and acting upon unsolicited advice. The more we trust the source and her or his expertise, the more likely we are to accept it. That is, unless we feel competitive with the adviser, be it parent, friend or colleague.
However, when we solicit the advice of a trusted source and are eager to embrace it, we often not only receive a tremendous gift, but give one as well.
Today was a banner day for solicited advice from me. And in each of the five instances, the appreciation of the recipient was so gratifying.
Great advice is that which is knowledgeably given and enthusiastically acted upon. Great advice appropriately shared and acknowledged makes the giver and receiver both realize that a gifted exchange has occurred.
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
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