Thursday, August 16, 2012

Changing the Things We Can

Generally, only babies with a soiled diaper truly appreciate and readily accept change.  The rest of us need some time to adjust. 

It's often hard to accept the adjustment period others need to consider and embrace change once we have carefully developed a plan, after weighing alternatives.  Or when we want to introduce a program we've successfully used in another environment, but we're met with "that's not the way we do things here" - it's discouraging. 

Trying to introduce change has reinforced:
  • Patience is a (sometimes painfully acquired) virtue.
  • Just because it's clear to me, it may take require many "show and tell" opportunities for others to agree.
  • Small victories deserve celebration.
  • I can lead the way, but I can't make others do anything they don't choose or accept.  I can just keep leading.
  • Though I trust until shown that a party is not trustworthy, others distrust until trustworthiness is proven.

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