When we don't get what we think we want, we're disappointed, frustrated and confused. It seems purely theoretical when our friends say, "when one door closes, another opens" or "something better will come along".
It often takes time to see that "no" or "not now" can be the springboard to other, better opportunities. We often quit exploring the range of options when we are presented with the possibility of something that will be "good enough".
My dear, talented friend was exploring career opportunities after a sabbatical. She networked like a super-star, shared countless job openings that were a great match for others she knew, and researched the universe of companies to discover the best job for herself.
Her best opportunities for her new career came through connections she had and created. When she reached the point with a particular company that she was the top candidate and was assured that internal timing issues and approvals just needed to be completed, she could have stopped looking. She didn't.
She continued to interview and explore possibilities. The first company's delay cost them a fabulous associate. But it yielded a far better job offer for my friend. The answer she thought she wanted would have locked her into a job that was "good enough". Because she didn't let her frustration nor the first company's assurances that a job offer was coming halt her exploration, she truly did find something better just around the corner.
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Pam, this post hit really close to home as I've recently had a nearly identical experience, but still looking for the "right" best place! This was a good reminder that sometimes we limit our own vision.
ReplyDeleteOh, and I got my blog up yesterday. I'm still learning and you are one of my blogging inspirations now! http://leadingethically.blogspot.com/
Cheers! And keep up the great blogging!
Jill,
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to hear what your "right" place becomes. As soon as I log out I'm reading your blog.
All the best,
Pam